A woman whose ex-partner shared intimate photos of her online which were viewed thousands of times has warned revenge porn victims are “suffering in silence”, amid calls to address “serious gaps” in the law.
Folami Prehaye told Sky News she faced “emotional turmoil” after her former boyfriend Thomas Samuel posted explicit pictures of her on the internet and shared them with her family, work colleagues and friends.
They were uploaded to various porn sites and on Facebook where they were seen 48,000 times before being removed, she says.
Following her ordeal, the mother-of-two from Bristol set up the support group Victims of Image Crime to help those who have suffered from image-based sexual abuse.
After a sharp rise in reports of revenge porn during the pandemic, Ms Prehaye warned the situation is “only going to get worse before it gets better”.
She told Sky News: “There’s not enough support emotionally long-term (for victims).
“People who are subjected to this type of crime tend not to talk about it straight away – they tend to suffer in silence.
“Once your content is removed, then what happens? It’s not just about the removal of content.
“This is stuff you relive all the time. There’s got to be some longevity of support.”
Calls to outlaw deepfake porn videos
The government is facing to calls to update laws to ban deepfake porn videos, where victims’ faces are superimposed on to images of naked bodies and posted online.
Former cabinet minister Maria Miller told the Commons this week there were “serious gaps” in the law that meant deepfake pornography was not illegal in England and Wales. It is outlawed in Scotland.
The Revenge Porn Helpline said it had seen an increase in reports of the videos over the last year and urged the government to “get ahead of the curve” and ban them.
Kate Worthington, a practitioner at the helpline, told Sky News: “We are starting to see deepfakes come into the helpline.
“From someone else’s perspective, they don’t know that’s not your naked body.
“Several celebrities have been unfortunate victims of this.
“Your face is superimposed on to an image of a naked body that isn’t yours.
“There is technology out there which can do that quite cleverly.”
In response to Ms Miller, justice minister Victoria Atkins said the government was seeking advice from the Law Commission to update legislation “to better reflect the 21st century in which we all live”.
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Victim Support sees rise in revenge porn cases
Valerie Wise, from the charity Victim Support, said it had also seen an increase in revenge porn cases that had been “exacerbated” by the coronavirus lockdowns.
She also warned that new technology allowing abusers to spy on victims was a “perpetrator’s paradise”.
Ms Wise, Victim Support’s national domestic abuse lead, said she was aware of cases involving tiny cameras being inserted into a teddy bear, a water bottle and a picture frame.
It comes after a former senior Metropolitan Police officer was jailed for voyeurism offences last month after using spy cameras to secretly film naked women.
Neil Corbel, who was a detective inspector when he committed the crimes, posed as an airline pilot to book models for photoshoots before planting the gadgets in hotel rooms, flats and Airbnbs.
The cameras were hidden in everyday items, including tissue boxes, phone chargers, air fresheners, glasses, keys and headphones, to video his unsuspecting victims for up to four hours.
Ms Wise told Sky News: “The tools have become so incredibly sophisticated.
“The person is seeing what’s going on in the home, with you being absolutely oblivious to it.
“That is image-based abuse. It’s voyeurism, without you being aware that somebody is able to listen in and see what’s happening.
“It is really frightening. It’s just unbelievable how sophisticated the technology has become, which is really the perpetrator’s paradise.”
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‘I’ve been propelled into a position of power’
Ms Prehaye’s former partner Samuel received a six-month sentence, suspended for two years, in October 2014.
She said that while she faced “trauma”, “emotional turmoil” and depression following her ordeal, her ex-boyfriend had ultimately “propelled her into a position of power”.
She told Sky News: “That was very much my aim – take back my power and control of my life and the images I want to be out there.
“It’s about turning a negative situation into a positive, and I can happily say I’ve done that.
“I know part of my recovery was about helping other people and making a difference and I know I’ve done that too.”
Ms Prehaye acknowledged that her “recovery journey” is ongoing and certain “triggers” have set her back in the past.
She said: “My previous partner had a job working in the same office park as me around the corner. That just triggered me, knowing he was that close to me.
“Even though I’d dealt with it and moved on, I’d picked my life back up, I trusted again, sometimes it’s those little things that can just set you back a little bit.
“The recovery journey… it’s something that can last.”
The Revenge Porn Helpline is able to assist adult victims of intimate image abuse and can be contacted here.
Ms Prehaye’s support group can be contacted here, while details of how to contact Victim Support can be found here.